Will bra retailers finally measure up?

I have been having problems purchasing bras for more than 50 years (since the days when you could only get A,B andC cup fittings). The advent of the wider range of cup fittings, although it has helped, in some ways has made the choice more confusing. I currently have bras which more or less fit which range in size from 34J to 36G. A lot depends on the manufacturer but also on the style. Sometimes I get a bra which fits well and feels comfortable but does nothing for my shape. Why do manufacturers make bras for large bosomed ladies in very flimsy material?

I have, in the past, used a bra fitter and have also followed the directions shown in articles about choosing the right size of bra but the results have never been satisfactory.

I have some sympathy with bra manufacturers and bra fitters because we women are all so different, not just physically but in our expectations. My sister and I, for example, are physically similar but I like my bra to be very close fitting and wired whereas she prefers hers loosely fitting and unwired. It would be useful if the sizings were uniform throughout the industry so that you could go into a shop pick your size and style and only have to concern yourself with the appearance and material of the bra. I’ not sure that’s ever going to be possible

For probably far too many years I didn’t really wear bras to a great extent but the years have began to catch up & gravity has added its evil to the mix resulting in problems & discomfort never encountered before! I decided that a ‘bra fitting/measuring service’ might be a good option, so headed to M & S for what might be a life changing experience. After all, M & S has been the backbone of lingerie for my generation since …….well, we won’t go into that!
The girl who eventually assessed my ‘size’ was very pleasant – apparently she did not require to use a tape measure as a visual assessment would suffice. I was emphatically informed of my correct size (somewhat different to the one I’d assumed I was for too many years to admit to!).
Confident that I had finally been properly measured and sussed out, I proceeded to spend a considerable sum in M & S on bras of my delegated size and then trotted off to La Senza and spent an equivalent sum of the same (supposedly correct) sized **** hammocks – hopefully the site won’t deem these words to be ‘offensive’!!
OK, now comes the sad part – the bras purchased from M & S in the size recommended by their fitter are very far from comfortable – the ones from La Senza in that size are possibly a more comfortable fit.
As said in the previous comment – why on earth can the sizing not show some consistensy??
How many of us spend £30 on a **** hammock that still isn’t the right size and just sits in the back of our undie drawer as it will never be worn?
I have a handful of ‘Teddies’ supposedly in the correct size – they are far too short in body length and ride up constantly when worn – BUT they cost a fortune!
Why are we constantly splashing out on stuff to simply fill our ‘undie drawer’ – the retailers seem to have got us ladies over a barrel!

My mother taught me how to put on a bra (it’s important to know how to) and she came with me to the shop when it was time for me to buy my first one (not just because she was holding the purse strings!). The lady at the shop took the two measurements you need to take (on and just below the breasts) properly with a measuring tape, and gave me a few bras to try on to see how they fitted. Some were one size down on the measurements, some the “right” measurements size and some one size up. When I tried them on the lady showed me again the correct way to put the bra on, and we found a bra that fitted me without difficulty.

Not knowing how to put on a bra, not knowing how to measure ourselves and not getting any help from some shop assistants is unfortunately not the only problem we have. In the same way as one brand’s size 10 trousers will really be a size 12 and vice versa, one brand’s 34B will really be a 36A and so on, sometimes much more wildly differing than this. My advice is to stick to one or two brands that you have found do fit. I’ve given up on M&S myself for example but find that La Senza is perfect.

I have a lot of sympathy for women with very small or very large bosoms. Not a lot is done for them. Specialised shops do exist (there is one in Edinburgh for example), but of course they are few and far between.

As far as price is concerned, shop around, and shop when there are sales on or special offers. I know it is much more difficult to find your size then, but you can come across a real treat from time to time.

I would like to know why we have to have strtchy staps on our bras.Everytime I lean over half my breast fall out.I feal like I have cantalopes instead of breast.,they are just a round mass on the front of me.The bras come up in the back & down goes your breast.I have tried every brand on the market but they all do the same.Plus we have wire under our breast diggind into our body’s.I’m so sick of looking like this I feel like just throwing all my bras away & just let them fall,and believe me that would not be a pretty sight! HELP! We need the old fashion bra.Know streatchy straps & know wire underneath.