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What’s the emotional impact of an online scam?

The financial impact of online scams is easy to see, but we don’t talk enough about how else this type of fraud affects us. How do scams impact your behaviour online?

14/10/20: Government must take action to protect people

Today we’ve published research into consumer attitudes, knowledge and behaviour relating to scams on social media platforms.

We found that people are seriously underestimating their chances of falling victim to fraud on the sites and suffering the devastating emotional and financial consequences that this can result in.

Our research, comprised of an in-depth online community of Facebook users and a nationally representative online survey of 1,700 users of the site, found that users’ knowledge of what Facebook does to protect people from becoming a victim of a scam was low.

However, when details of Facebook’s actual systems and processes were explained, users were sceptical about their effectiveness and questioned whether they are sufficient.

While our research was conducted with a focus on Facebook due to its size and influence in the social media landscape, we believe that the findings and implications can be reasonably extended to apply to other similar social networking sites and online platforms.

We also heard from courageous scam victims who told Which? about how their experiences affected their confidence in themselves, their ability to trust others and even their mental and / or physical health.

Which? is now calling for online platforms, including social media sites, to be given greater responsibility to prevent scam content appearing on their platforms.

The government has a perfect opportunity to deliver this in the upcoming online harms bill and, if not, ministers must set out their proposals for further legislative action to effectively protect consumers.

05/10/20: Emotional impact

How many online scams are out there? How long’s a piece of string….

We’ve covered hundreds here on Which? Conversation in order to warn people of the dangers they pose by showing examples.

Thanks to the comments here in the community, we’re able to respond rapidly to new ones, and recognise the ones that are causing the most concern.

You can opt to receive these alerts directly via our scam alert service here:


 
 

Emotional harm

We’ve often spoken about what happens during a scam, and how new scams look online. This has included everything from ordering something online, only to receive a fake version, or even something entirely different: 

To ‘friends’ contacting you with a fake email, asking for cash, or even asking to take over your computer via remote access.

The financial impact of scams is evident, but we’ve spoken less about how scams might impact us in how we behave and how we feel when going about our business online.

How hard might it be to recover trust in a friend to whom you sent money in good faith, only to find that friend had been hacked? What about regaining your confidence online when you believe you are able to spot a scam, only to become the victim of one yourself?  

Tell us your story

We believe that the emotional impact of scams on consumers needs more attention, so we’d like to hear your experiences.  

If you were the victim of an online scam of any type, what happened, and how did you feel? Were you able to find a resolution?

What changed for you afterwards? Has there been an emotional impact on you personally, such as a loss of trust or confidence, or avoiding certain activities?  

If you haven’t been the victim of an online scam, does having knowledge of the many scams online have an impact on you?

Do you feel that certain online spaces are safer than others? Would a social media site, for example, be safer than an online marketplace?

If you see a scam on a particular site, do you know how to report it? If so, how often do you do so? 

If you were the victim of a scam, would you feel comfortable talking about it?
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Be kind

Please treat this discussion as a safe space. For some, these might be difficult stories to retell.

We want to understand this difficulty and make sure we all consider the impact this has directly from people who have been affected. 

This is not an opportunity to apportion blame or judge others for their choices, as this isn’t constructive to the discussion, nor does it invite others to be open with their experiences.

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Support is available

Which?’s has extensive Consumer Rights guidance on Scams, including how to identify and report scams, and how to get your money back if you have been a victim.

Additionally, Which? Legal can offer you tailored legal advice on a variety of consumer problems.

Being scammed can take a huge toll on you emotionally and mentally. It helps to speak to someone about what you’re going through.

Mind – confidential information and support

Mind has a confidential information and support line, Mind Infoline, available on 0300 123 3393 (lines open 9am – 6pm, Monday – Friday).

The charity also runs the supportive online community Elefriends where you can talk about and share your experiences of mental health.

Victim Support – 24/7 helpline

Victim Support has a free, 24/7 helpline where you can speak to someone confidentially. This can be a one-off call or they can refer you to local services for on-going support.

This service is free and run by Victim Support which is an independent charity.

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Comments
Terry Gabriel says:
19 October 2020

In October 2018, while checking my bank account on line I noted a pending payment of a fraudulent transaction on my Lloyd’s current account where my Lloyd’s visa debit card had been used to make purchase with a company based in Sheffield South Yorkshire, selling cheap computers and other electrical goods, of nearly £500 (I live in Kent). My debit card is kept secure and never out of my possession. However I do occasionally make online or telephone purchases, mostly with Amazon. I contacted Lloyd’s and they stopped the card immediately and issued a new one with a different number. The new card was received a few days later. Before I had even used the card I noted yet another fraudulent transaction, this time with the new card for a subscription with Netflix. It appears that the scum-bucket involved bought a computer then subscribed to Netflix for films and videos at my expense. When signing up with Netflix, you get a free month before the first subscription is taken but you have to provide a credit or debit card number. The original card number was recorded by Netflix but by the time the first subscription was taken, my new as yet unused debit card had been issued.
Lloyd’s (and Netflix) were very good and reimbursed me within days. I reported the matter to my local police but they weren’t interested and advised report the fraud to the City of London Action Fraud, who collate these crimes on a National basis, which I did. I also reported it to South Yorkshire police but again they were not bothered telling me to report it to my local police who could then request an action by them. In essence all it needed was the police to contact the Sheffield company, get the full details of what was purchased, the name and address of the person who made the original transaction, get hold of the courier company, speak to the delivery driver, get details and description of the person who received the goods, then take it from there. Its not rocket science is it?
I was concerned that Netflix were able to charge me on a card I had never used. I complained to Lloyd’s but they said it was all down to Visa and because where there is a regular subscription, Visa will automatically give any new card details to the company concerned. This is a nonsense and just allows more fraud to be committed. Visa, just batted me off back to Lloyd’s. The Banking Ombudsman was useless and I never heard a word from Action Fraud in the City. I was not out of pocket, so just gave up. The sad thing is the scrote responsible for stealing from my account had most likely done the same to other citizens and could very easily been caught. I have no idea how my card became compromised and can only suspect it was by some bent employee working for a company I dealt with.